This is Me
Hi I’m Brenda, I’m a Lifestyle and Happiness Coach and mother of four amazing kids of all ages. My mission is to support other mothers to create a life where they have the time, the money and the energy to focus on the little details that count.
I love interior design, traveling with my kids, having fun with adults for once, shopping, and taking the time to be ME rather than just a mom, or a wife, although those are cool jobs too!
I’ll be honest, it’s not easy to make time to do these things, BUT it is possible and that’s what I aim to show my clients. You’re worth the little details that make you happier, more fun, a better mom, a better wife.
I fully understand that being a mom involves driving to dance class, to swimming, and school to school, then karate…I totally have worn my pajamas to drop my kids off at school and rock the constant mom-messy-bun.
I believe that you can do those things, and still find happiness, fulfillment, love and The TRUE YOU behind the daily grind.
Take the time to dance, listen to music, shop for something other than juice boxes and sandwich bags…
The little details count…
From then 'till now
HERE IS MY STORY
All of my life I hid behind people. I didn’t think I was a leader. I thought management wasn’t for me. I thought owning a business FOR SURE wasn’t for me. I had a lot of insecurities about not having gone to college, BUT I knew I was meant for more.
I was a young mom, I worked in the same job since the age 18. There were times where I worked 7 days per week and had NO time for my kids, and no time for myself. I didn’t know the “rules” on how to be a mom.
I missed out on weekends with my kids, I missed my daughter’s best soccer game ever. I tried to buy them things to make up for it, but we all knew that wasn’t enough. What they needed was me.
I missed out on being a teen and a young adult myself. I didn’t have girls nights, I missed out on traveling. I felt selfish doing anything for myself.
Everything got a bit darker when I tried to re-live those party days later on in life in a more unbalanced way. This brought trouble in all forms. I was drinking, making bad decisions and not being my highest self.
I noticed I was being irritable and aggressive towards the people I love and knew something was out of alignment.
When you’re really meant for more in life, the Universe will show you, and oh boy, was she showing me.
Something had to change.
Once I was open to listening to the guidance, the Universe started to give me hints for a new path to go on. I stumbled across a Chakra meditation challenge and I knew I had to participate. I realized later than the Universe was leading m to this for a while. Weeks before I saw the challenge, a book literally fell off the shelf in front of me, it was a chakra healing guide. I had a sensation all over my body that made me realize I needed this book.
I knew someone was guiding and supporting me.
Once I started meditation and tapping in, I realized there were teachings in me that had to be shared with the Universe. Through all of my struggles, pain, and drama, I was learning lessons that needed to be shared with other women that need the support.
We all need that guidance when we feel we have no one to turn to. Your family doesn’t know how to help you.
I support women to find the balance in life, to find enjoyment and to find happiness. I believe we all have lessons to share and a message to spread.
I strongly believe that the only way you will fail is if you quit. I am going to keep trying, I’m going to shine as much as I can, because I KNOW I CAN, and I KNOW YOU CAN.
You know when you see the glow in your face that it’s the true you.